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Weblog of laszloka Nők... 2012.03.05 20:02:00

Az udvariasság a női nem iránt érzett tisztelet tettekben való megnyilvánulása. Nem olyan régen írtam az udvariasságról, most kicsit továbbgondoltam a témát. Mivel közeleg a nőnap, úgy döntöttem leírom a véleményem egy kicsit a mai világról, és hogy a Nők helyzete…..

JánosHunyadi 2012.03.21 18:37:56

Yes, I read the article when it was first published. It is potentially a very convincing argument. But Ms. Wolf does not support it with evidence - she refers to young men and women telling her things on college campuses, but that is little better than heresay. I suspect that, knowing who she is, only those students who have a problem with pornography talk to her about it. The majority who use it without problems haven't talked to her, and why should they?

The problem I have with most people on the anti-pornography side of the debate is that they form an opinion and then look for evidence to support it. Whereas any social scientist worth his or her salt does it the other way around - looks for the evidence and then forms his or her opinion based on the evidence. Until both sides start using evidence-based reasoning, then the debate will never get beyond the level of young children in a school yard: "my Dad's better"..."no, my Dad's better".

JánosHunyadi 2012.03.21 18:45:21

@laszloka: Love can have very adverse consequences - just read Romeo and Juliet :-) I'm not saying that it is normally an addiction, but there is at least some evidence to suggest that it can be:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love_addiction

JánosHunyadi 2012.03.21 19:00:42

Oh, and my personal experience runs counter to Naomi Wolf's views - using pornography has not desensitised me but, on the contrary, I find "real, live women" more sexually attractive than ever. I suspect that Wolf is more concerned with the effect of the widespread availability of pornography on women than on men. She is clearly unhappy that young women seem to be influenced by pornography in how they treat their bodies and how they behave. I can understand why, as a feminist, she would be concerned with this. But I think she does not understand young men.

Weblog of laszloka Tisztelet, udvariasság 2011.11.30 12:54:00

Akkor fussunk neki mégegyszer...Ugyanezt a posztot tegnap már megírtam, de egy sajnálatos véletlen következtében teljes egészében elveszett, szóval most megpróbálom reprodukálni. Arra lettem figyelmes, hogy egyre kevesebb fiú adja meg az alapvető tiszteletet a lányoknak. 90…..

JánosHunyadi 2012.03.08 19:01:26

Opening doors for someone has nothing to do with respect. Indeed, it is just as often the opposite - it says to a girl "you are too weak to open the door for yourself". Girls are quite capable of opening their own doors. I wholeheartedly support opening doors for those who are truly weak - the elderly, those who have physically disabilities - but give strong, young girls the opportunity to open doors for themselves rather than having to wait for a male to do it for them.

On the topic of buses, I found some of the rudest people using them in Budapest to be the drivers! Among passengers, the rudest tended to be old people. I found the young people generally to be very civil and polite.

Weblog of laszloka A svéd modell... 2012.02.06 18:00:00

Mindig is nyilvánvaló volt számomra, hogy vannak kevéssé normális emberek is a Földön. Velük nincs is sok baj. De sajnos van egy olyan szűkebb köre ezeknek az embereknek, akik a hülyeségeiket büszkén, ország-világ előtt felvállalják. Ilyenek például azok a svédek, akik nem…..

JánosHunyadi 2012.03.08 18:19:59

Well, I also find the ideas implemented by the Swedish nursery very strange - but it IS only one nursery and no one is forced to send their children there. And there is no evidence at all that it will harm the children - indeed, no matter what you teach them most girls will grow up to be feminine women and most boys to be masculine men. So, I think you are overreacting. There are still far, far more examples of the opposite in the world: enforced differentiation between the sexes where there is no reason to do so.

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